Protecting your privacy, online and when you first meet

General prevention information.

On a service devoted to plans for a child, people quickly share very personal things. You remain free to decide what to say, to whom and when.

In your profile

• Use a first name or a pseudonym; your surname is not needed.
• Give a region rather than an address: your exact location is never displayed.
• Sensitive questions, such as gender identity or orientation, are optional. You choose who can see each piece of information.
• Avoid photos that show your home, your workplace, a number plate or other people.

In your conversations

• Do not give out your address, your employer or your social media accounts too early.
• Never send an identity document, a medical document or bank details.
• AI translation is optional: switch it on only if you need it.
• If a conversation makes you uncomfortable, you can leave it, block the person and report them.

Before a first meeting

1. Exchange messages first, then speak on a call.
2. Choose a busy public place, in the daytime if possible.
3. Tell someone you trust: who with, where, at what time.
4. Stay in control of how you travel, both there and back.
5. Listen to your intuition: you can cut the meeting short or cancel without explaining yourself.

Your rights over your data

You can export your data, withdraw a consent or delete your account from your settings at any time. The French data protection authority, the CNIL, publishes advice on protecting your privacy on dating sites and apps: the link is at the bottom of this page.